It's one thing to see two people in a relationship,
know they are committed (whether they are happy or not)
and know that they have consummated the relationship with a child
yet still desire one of those persons.
It's one thing to act on the desire for that taken person,
aggressively pursue that person,
or positively respond to the advances of the committed person.
It's one thing to knowingly aid in the weakening of a family structure
for your selfish gain and that of the cheater
without thinking about the consequences of your actions.
It's one thing to then conceive a child with this cheater,
this committed person,
this person that has a responsibility to his/her family (whether he/she is mature enough to accept it or not).
BUT
It's another thing,
a despicable,
grotesque,
selfish,
callous,
malicious thing,
to then flaunt this affair, this indiscretion,
as if your actions are heroic,
as if you are a victor,
a winner of some esteemed competition.
When in actuality all you have shown is
your incapacity to experience guilt,
your total disregard for the feelings of others,
your immature sense of extreme entitlement,
your ability to offer "plausible rationalizations", for a behavior that has brought conflict to undeserving third and fourth parties.
So act accordingly,
for it is one thing to participate in this affair to begin with,
but another thing, to further embarrass yourself by feeling proud and boasting when you have conquered nothing.
