Tuesday, March 13, 2007

Your Business?

So I woke up yesterday, signed into my msn, and friend 1 pops up asking me whether I told friend 2 her business. Now I am caught off guard and immediately disgusted by the question since firstly, I am disgusted by the "business" and am not interested in telling others about it and secondly, I am too grown to be carrying on any he say - she say discussions. I put these thoughts in the back of my head and continue the discussion anyway.

Apparently, friend 2 had texted friend 1 stating "Goddess briefly mentioned the business as she thought I had already known." Well two flags should go up in the head of friend 1... firstly, Goddess thoughtttttt friend 2 had already known and secondly, Goddess BRIEFLY mentioned the business ... anyway here I am having to explain to friend 1 that what friend 2 knows is what the whole of Tobago knows by now. . . nothing special .. nothing that is Your business. Additionally, if friend 1 is so concerned about her business then maybe she shouldnt have put it out there by her actions. This wasn't any special news story that few people knew .. had that been the case then I won't have accidentally slipped two simple facts.

How can I tell friend 2 everything when I don't even know everything... and friend 2 went so far as to say Goddess briefly mentioned... what part of briefly is not comprehensible. I have lost some respect for friend 1 as a result of that business of hers and her reactions to it and I refuse to feel guilty for assuming friend 2 knew something that is being talked all over Tobago.

I may or may not have lost a friend as a result of this childish, immature situation. I strongly believe that you should focus on "Your business", the cause of "Your business", and how you can avoid a situation like that from occuring in the future.... don't sweat the small stuff. People approach me everyday about Your business and as I tell them it does not concern me.. friend 2 slipped through the crack.. I admit I was fooled by her..but don't for one minute think I have the time to be discussing something that I do not support.

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